Luvi Silverberg
October 25, 2022

How to Make a Man Cry in Bed


So, you want to know how to make him cry during sex? Whether it's because you're genuinely curious or just want to spice things up in the bedroom, I'm all for it. Personally, I love hearing my partner's moans and screams when we are having sex. It makes me feel like he's enjoying himself and that he trusts me enough to let go of everything else (including his inhibitions). That being said, there are some basic tips that will help improve your skills as well as your confidence level in bed so that when you do make him cry out your name during sex, he will be begging for more!

Here's How to Make Him Cry Out Your Name During Sex, According To Men

If you want your man to cry out your name during sex, then you need to push him into it. Men are simple creatures: they like being dominated in bed and they want their partners to make them feel like they’re the only thing on her mind. Here's how to do that:

  • Take control of the situation by telling him exactly what you want him to do (and don’t apologize for being bossy). You're not going to get very far by simply asking him if he wants something—he will probably just say yes so he doesn't offend you or hurt your feelings. But if you tell him what kind of position, toys or techniques you enjoy most, then there is no room for misinterpretation—plus it will help gauge which ones turn him on too!

  • Remind yourself that even though he may seem strong and stoic sometimes, all men have emotions too (sometimes). If something triggers them emotionally during sex—whether good or bad—it can trigger an emotional response in his body as well (i.e., crying). So even though we might only see this happening when someone else makes our heart melt with joy/sadness while watching a movie together; don't be afraid when things become intense between two lovers because this happens more often than not!

1. Get domineering.

  • Get domineering.

You may have heard the term "submissive" thrown around in the bedroom, but contrary to popular belief, it doesn't mean that you should be a doormat. Men aren't turned on by women who roll over and play dead when they're trying to get frisky in the sack; they want someone who's assertive and in control of the situation—you know, like an alpha male or a female boss (or both). This is where being dominant comes into play: Instead of waiting for him to make all his moves, take charge yourself! If you want things done right, do them yourself!

  • Be open-minded when it comes to sex toys and roleplay scenarios that might normally seem outside your comfort zone (like costumes)

2. Take charge of the situation.

It's okay to take charge, but don't be afraid to let him take over. Once you've opened your mind and heart to this new experience, it's important for both of you to feel comfortable. If he feels like you're only interested in taking his virginity (and not really in him), then this is going to be a very awkward night for everyone involved.

3. Pay attention to his body language.

  • Pay attention to his body language.

You can tell a lot about the way a man is feeling based on how he holds himself, especially if he's naked in bed with you. If he's holding his arms out or up, it means he wants you to touch him there and do something with your hands. If his legs are spread wide open and he is pointing his toes, it means he wants something done down there but not necessarily penetration just yet if that makes sense? And if he has both of his hands on top of his head or over each other behind him on the bed then this means that what you're doing right now feels really good so keep going!

4. Be a risk-taker, but in a fun way.

Asking a man to try something new and adventurous in bed, even if it is something you have never done before, is a great way to make him cry. It may sound silly, but if you really want him to cry in bed then this would be the best way of doing it.

For example, if you have always wanted to try oral sex with an ice cream cone as a toy for your partner but were too shy or scared of how he would react then now is the time to do it!

The reason why this works so well is because when people are feeling adventurous they become more open-minded about everything else too - including their feelings and emotions. Suddenly these feelings start flowing through like water from a tap until eventually there's nothing left inside except for pure emotion; crying!

5. Change things up.

You can lead the way in this department by being open to trying new things.

A man has a much more limited repertoire when it comes to sex than women do, so if you're feeling like something is missing from your sex life, don't be afraid to ask for what you want.

It's also important not to limit yourself or your partner by thinking that certain kinds of sex are "too" aggressive or "too" kinky. If either of you is interested in experimenting with something outside the box, it should be encouraged—just make sure both parties are on board with the idea before trying anything new!

6. Or get experimental and kinky in bed!

Having sex is all about letting your imagination run wild, and it’s never too late to start. If you have a kink or fetish that you’re afraid of bringing up because you feel like it might be weird, don’t be! The only thing weirder than having weird sex is how normal people think having normal sex is. So don’t shy away from the kinks in your life; instead, embrace them!

If this sounds like something you want to try but aren't sure where to begin, here are some ideas for getting started:

  • Bondage (or “kinky rope work") involves tying someone up so their hands are bound together by ropes or other materials—usually with their arms behind their back. This can take a lot of skill on the part of both parties involved—one person has to tie up another without hurting them while also making sure they look glamorous while doing so—but if done correctly, it can lead to highly erotic experiences between partners. You may want to start out by getting tied up yourself before attempting bondage with another person; this way everyone knows what they're doing when they start playing around in bed together!

7. Don't forget about role-play and fantasies between the sheets!

Role-play is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. You can do it with your significant other, or by yourself. It's a lot of fun and can be a lot more intimate than regular sex if you're both into it! Role-play is basically acting out fantasies that you want to experience, which can be anything from being owned by your partner to being Batman with his sidekick Robin. If you're feeling adventurous, there are tons of guides online that will help get started; just make sure not to forget the safe words!

8. Don't be afraid to get aggressive with him.

  • Don't be afraid to get aggressive with him.

Men love the feeling of being dominated by a woman, so don't hesitate to take control and make the first move. You can use your voice, body language, hands, and eyes to convey dominance in bed. Be confident when you ask him what he wants you to do next or how he’d like for you to touch him. Displaying confidence will turn any guy on immediately!

9. When it comes to sex, you need to be confident in order for him to feel confident too!

In order for you to be able to make a man cry during sex, it’s important that he is confident in his own abilities. Men are very visual creatures, so when it comes to sex and foreplay, they like it when their partner knows what she wants. The more confident you are in bed, the more likely you will be able to get him to shed some tears. Men like confident women because they want someone who can take charge and lead them into new experiences.

The key here is balance: If you take too much control of the situation; men will feel like they have been emasculated and may begin to question whether or not they even enjoy having sex with you at all - which could cause an uncomfortable situation! On the other hand if he takes too much control; then there's no room left for creativity or spontaneity between the two of us which would make things very boring over time (and we don't want boring!). So remember: Be careful how much control one party has over another because this can lead to issues down road!

10. Give him what he craves!

The best way to make a man cry in bed is to give him what he craves. Here are some ideas:

  • Be adventurous. Don't be afraid to try new things and explore your sexuality. If you're nervous about it, start with something small like trying out a new position or using a toy together.

  • Be confident! Don't apologize for wanting the same things as he does; instead, let him know how much you enjoy pleasuring him and being pleasured by him in return. A great way of doing this is through dirty talk—it can be very empowering!

  • Get kinky! If there's something specific that you've been dying to try with your partner but haven't had the courage yet, now's the time! You might need some props like blindfolds or handcuffs but don't worry: they're not just for sex anymore—they're also good for bondage games (and yes—there are ways!). Or maybe roleplay is more your thing? Something like playing doctor where one person plays an injured patient who needs help getting back up on their feet again (and maybe even off them too). It'll help create some playful tension between both parties which could definitely lead into some seriously hot foreplay once everyone gets started again later on down the line!


The key to making a man cry in bed is confidence. He wants to see you feeling good and enjoying yourself, so don't be afraid to be aggressive with him.

If you want to learn how to make a man cry in bed, it's important not only that you're confident about your body, but also that you give him what he craves. You should understand exactly how he wants to be pleasured and what makes him tick in the bedroom - then use these tools effectively!

You should also try role-playing and fantasies between the sheets; this will help spice things up in an exciting way.


We hope you enjoyed learning how to make a man cry out your name during sex! It's definitely not an easy feat, but we promise that if you follow these tips, he'll be crying for more.